Exploring Group Shadows of
Teal Groups/Organizations
Here is a checklist of some Teal-group shadows I have observed over the years. A group shadow is a pattern of group interactions (involving some or all the group members) which can be observed to be detrimental to the well-being of the group and to its actions/results/expression of its Evolutionary Purpose.
These are patterns I've seen and experienced in groups nominally or even predominantly operating in Teal/Yellow consciousness. At the end below, I talk briefly about how this list might be USED by a group.
The list is not in any particular order.
"EGO" MEANS "INVALID"
1. Someone comes up with a tension and others assume or discern it is individual, "from ego," or "defensive," instead of actually looking to see whether it is indeed a systemic/group matter/tension. It could be valid and useful for the group to consider EVEN IF the individual is coming from ego-shadow. Both-and, not either-or. By "shooting the messenger" down (into silenced invalidation) without reflecting, potential collective intelligence is lost.
LEFTOVER HABITS AROUND POWER AND DECISIONS
2. Individuals in a self-management environment are often still tethered to old habits of consciousness/behavior, and, for example, seek consensus before acting
(Green) or seek permission before acting (Orange.) This becomes a group shadow if others, due to their own individual shadows, don't realize
this and call attention to it.
One effect detrimental to the group is that things don't get done even though
they might have been good for the group. Also, the self-inhibiting breeds resentment in
those who won't act without consensus or permission; that
contaminates the relational space and reduces their enthusiasm for
contributing to the thriving of the whole group.
UNCLARITY AROUND RESPONSIBILITY
3. A not-fully-mature Green shadow showing up in a Teal-oriented group is that who is accountable/responsible for doing
what, is unclear, and no one--for whatever reason--seeks to clarify. Or
someone seeks to clarify and others resist and seek to perpetuate the unclarity,
because it gives room for their own shadow to play out, such as for
example making power moves.
OFFICE POLITICS INSTEAD OF CONSTRUCTIVE ACTION
OFFICE POLITICS INSTEAD OF CONSTRUCTIVE ACTION
4. "Office politics" happens
within the group, instead of the Teal group consciousness which would
create behaviors showing self-empowerment, compassion, and alignment with Evolutionary Purpose and with
good of the whole. People complain or gossip, but don't
act to remediate, and no one calls them on it. People play victim to
others or to the systems of the group, instead of claiming the
self-empowerment which a Teal group offers them, and no one calls them on that.
NOT CLAIMING SELF-EMPOWERMENT
5.
A related shadow is that an outside observer can often see relational interplays going on, perhaps even below the level of
anyone's awareness, which inhibit the self-empowerment which CAN be
claimed in the group without negative consequences. Everyone is acting
out of old habits from earlier life, and no one within the group is
capable of being fully aware of these. Self-management, self-organization, self-generativity, leadership emergence -- all suffer, making the organization less Teal and less effective.
NOT CHALLENGING SOMEONE VALUABLE
6.
Someone who contributes a great deal to the group also has habitual subconscious (or rationalized) behaviors that are detrimental to others' well-being thus reducing their enthusiasm for the
group's endeavor. But that person is perceived by several in the group to be unwilling to
recognize this detrimental effect. Everyone dances around the elephant
in the room, rather than naming and compassionately challenging it. Calling attention to
the relational dynamic happening would allow the possibility of the individual/group/system
adjusting in a healthier way.
CONTRIBUTION TAKES PRECEDENCE OVER COMPASSION
7.
Another group shadow which can show up in Teal is also from lack of enough Green-maturation. In general, I believe that lack of enough Green-maturation turns Teal into a heartless system, this being one instance of how that plays out. Members of a nominally Teal group don't show compassion, and adjust
their expectations, and even adjust the group systems, when someone is
in a crisis or temporary tough situation in life that reduces their
contribution to the group's Evolutionary Purpose. The EP becomes a
tyrant, not a way toward a more loving world.
CONTRIBUTION IS ONLY MEASURE OF VALUE
8.
A similar group shadow which can show up in Teal from insufficient Green-maturation
is around what used to be called "performance evaluations," whatever
self-management method is used for those. If degree of contribution to the Evolutionary Purpose of a
role or the group is the only criterion, the group will suffer.
There could be a compassionate inquiry into the circumstances, when someone's contribution seems to fall short, with every
reasonable attempt to adjust the system so as to optimize the potential
contribution of someone. If there is no inquiry and attempt to shift the system, the group as a whole loses
collective intelligence that a bit of compassion could have made
available.
LACK OF SELF-AWARENESS OF OTHERS' PERCEPTIONS
9.
Another common group shadow in Teal is that -- from insufficient time
spent maturing through healthy Green -- individuals just don't realize how they are
showing up for others. Often this is combined with other dynamics that inhibit compassionate
clarity calling attention to the way the person is often perceived. Thus the person doesn't get the necessary feedback that
their comments are, for example, so often perceived as snarky and critical,
rather than educational and helpful.
EVOLUTIONARY PURPOSE EXCLUDES PLAY AND HUMOR
10.
Yet another shadow held over from Orange is "nose to the grindstone."
Even an Evolutionary Purpose can become a grindstone, if the Teal values
of playfulness, humor, curiosity, co-creativity, collective learning, are not
consciously cultivated. Again, anyone in the group could call attention
to this, but our old habits magnetize and hypnotize us, so we tend to
fall back even after that, and even expect others to be "nose to grindstone."
STATUS CONSIDERATIONS HAVE DETRIMENTAL INFLUENCE
11.
Yet another shadow, this one from way down in Beige, is consciousness
of "status" differences among individuals, and playing into those, in
complex relational space dynamics, all quite subliminal, below
awareness. As "higher apes" we have various criteria for quickly
assessing whether someone is higher status than us, or lower, and
automatically adjusting our behavior accordingly.
This sometimes creates behaviors
contrary to the behaviors which a Teal consciousness would produce (deference to perceived-but-not-factual "authority," for example.) But
I venture to say this shadow plays out in every group, possibly even in
every individual who has not spent sufficient time in Green rooting it
out.
HYPOCRISY AND LIP SERVICE ARE ALLOWED TO CONTINUE
12.
A group shadow I observed some years ago was a Second-Tier-aspiring
group which gave a lot of lip service and preached all that, but the
system was set up so that the leader was the only "valid" source of
interpretations of the group agreements. That unfortunately combined
with the leader's natural power-over mode of relating.
After years of
calling attention to discrepancies and hypocrisy, I realized the members
of the group were totally comfortable, and didn't want anything to
change. They didn't want to remove the "power-over" group dynamic. It
played into their own needs just fine. They in fact attempted to
neutralize or just ignore, any attempt to clarify the group dynamics.
This was a Blue shadow operating in the group via collusion among individual shadows.
TYPOCENTRIC BEHAVIOR RULES
13.
Yet another "insufficient Green" group shadow arises when some or most
of the group are not healthily aware of their own individual shadow and
their own individual "types," and how those show up in our daily
behavior, and how they often affect others. This area of self-knowledge,
or lack of it, hugely impacts how a group as a whole functions.
Enough
self-knowledge enables individuals to spot and either prevent or
counteract, their own typological or shadow habits that others typically
react negatively to. "Oh, there I go, being the bossy Eight again.
Forgive me." It also enables others to compassionately label those
behaviors and perhaps humorously call our attention to it: "Yes, boss."
EVOLUTIONARY PURPOSE LEADS TO OVERWHELM AND BURNOUT
14. Evolutionary Purpose can become an excuse for all kinds of dirt and dust accumulating in the relational space of an organization. Insufficient Green-maturation means here that task-orientation of "expressing our Evolutionary Purpose" becomes a slave-driver within and between individuals.
This shows up often as taking on too many projects as individuals or a group, resulting in overwhelm and burnout. It also can show up as not attending to the wellbeing of the group's relational space -- "no time for that" -- or even as devaluing of wellbeing in comparison to "saving the world." Relational space, people's feelings, simply aren't regarded as important in the grand scale of the group's work.
MEMBERS AT EARLIER STAGES ARE DEVALUED
15. Teal/Yellow consciousness, when mature and healthy, makes room for the valued contribution from all previous stages, and the group members whose "center of developmental gravity" is still First Tier. Early Teal/Yellow has a tendency to still be rejecting where it came from. (This is typical in early phase of any stage, and Second Tier is not exempt, I've observed.)
Thus, the group as a whole doesn't really design its systems to accommodate and use the gifts from members who are predominantly in earlier stages. Those folks are marginalized, or looked down on as "LESS valuable." Whatever they say is regarded automatically as less valid and less valuable -- another instance of shooting the messenger.
GROUP SPACE DOESN'T INCLUDE ALL OUR INNER STAGES
16. Another expression of the same shadow is that the group doesn't design its systems to allow the healthy expression, within the group space, of the earlier stages represented in everyone. You would think that would be the first and joyful design task of a Teal group, but it's actually quite rare, in my experience.
There is lip-service to "wholeness," but the systems of the organization contain no spaces for group experiences for example in healthy Beige (a coffee room doesn't do it) or Purple (office parties don't do it.) How do people go about expressing, and using for the Evolutionary Purpose of the organization, their healthy transcended-and-integrated Beige, Purple, Red, Blue, Orange, or Green? That usually doesn't happen by accident in a Teal organization; it needs to be designed in. Group immaturity or group shadow could underlie that omission.
CONCLUSION
Awareness of group shadow, and willingness to deal with it, helps the
group relational space. The enacting and expressing of a group's
Evolutionary Purpose takes place IN relational space. So group shadow
work allows that space to become increasingly cleaner and clearer, thus
more effective in expressing the group's EP.
These
are merely a few potential group shadows which can show up in a
Teal-aspiring group and impede the expression of their shared
Evolutionary Purpose. Contemplating this checklist together could offer
one way into beginning such shadow work. The group can co-create its own
ways to spot other group shadows, and its own ways of helping to "unstick" these
group relational-energy patterns. Unsticking sometimes can require outside assistance because the patterns are often negatively or detrimentally auto-poietic (self-perpetuating, as in the example above,) and RESISTANT to both clarity and change!!
Have you seen these patterns? Can you give examples? What other patterns can you add to the list? Are there remediation processes you've observed to be helpful for one or several of these patterns?
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4 comments:
> There could be a compassionate inquiry into the circumstances, when someone's contribution seems to fall short, with every reasonable attempt to adjust the system so as to optimize the potential contribution of someone.
I'm not sure whether I understand that sentence. R U saying that when somebody doesn't perform what he offered to be accountable for, we have to adjust the system?
Good question, George. I didn't mean to imply "have to." But I would recommend an INQUIRY into whether it would be reasonable to make some adjustment in the system. To at least make the inquiry seems more Teal-ish, doesn't it? To consider the possibility that part of the cause of the situation is not just the individual's characteristics/behavior/attitude, but could also partly be the characteristics of the system? In my experience, it is usually a combination.
When i was in che nl and now in THC we assume that the individual is showing information for and as the system and do an inquiry from that.holacracy had good process. In THC wealso use constellation work. Out of that comes clarity whether system needs to change adapt add let go, and what the personal shadow work is that the individual needs to address, or perhaps clarifying conversations with other individuals. For which there is compassion and possibility for some support. When requested. But its the ind own responsibility and the we space is not used therapeutical
Helpful check list btw thank you
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